There’s a difference between interest and commitment.
When you’re interested in something, you do it only when it’s convenient. When you’re committed to something, you accept no excuses; only results
— Kenneth Blanchard

Every change in life starts with the commitment to change.

So get ready. Because today is the day that you are going to throw that stake in the ground, make your pledge and declare out loud that you are ready and that from this point onwards you are fully committed to letting love fully into your life.

So find a place where you can say this out-loud and WITH YOUR HAND ON YOUR HEART, repeat after us:



I am ready to do whatever it takes to clear the blocks
that have been keeping me from finding love.

I am committed to learn, to open up, to shift and to grow
so that love can flow fully in and out of my life.

I am ready to meet someone
and enjoy a happy, healthy and loving relationship with them”


Take a slow deep breathe and feel that intention and commitment sink in.

And then take one action today that really marks you making this commitment to yourself.

Maybe buy yourself a little something that symbolizes your commitment: a candle, a pendant, a plant  – something that can act as a daily reminder of your commitment.


Or download the Get Ready for Love heart  or any other image that for you symbolizes your commitment to letting love into your life. Put it somewhere prominent, where you’ll see it every day e.g.on your phone as a screensaver or cut it out and put it in your wallet.

And let the power of this new commitment to yourself start to weave its magic...

 X Selina and Vicki

Now with a little patience, it is only a matter of time before the person who knows how to love starts emerging from within. This person knows how to discover the ‘right relationship’ and how to thrive in it completely
— Zen and the Art of Falling in Love